Category: divorce

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    Do You *Really* Want It?

    There’s something said in my office pretty regularly that got my wheels turning: You can’t want something more than the other person wants it. I can sit here all day long and wish for change in someone, but unless they’ve got it in their head that they really, really want that change too – it’s…

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    Divorce and Age

    You know what I hear a lot when talking about divorce with potential clients of my Firm? “What am I going to do with my life? I’m going to be single at X years old.” You’re single. You’re not dead. Most importantly: Don’t let your marital status define you. If you are worried about your…

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    Thanking My Lucky Stars

    I started off 2023 with the theme “Celebrate Small Wins”. The past few years have been chaotic and a rollercoaster of goods, bads, and uglies so I wanted a theme that kept positivity flowing. I had goals of snail mailing cards for every occasion to be celebrated, buying tiny thoughtful trinkets to be given out…

  • Divorce sucks. Being divorced does not.

    Divorce sucks. There. I said it. I have been there. I have done that. I have watched people be shocked by my public announcement. I have felt shame without any logic behind it. I have felt judged, especially by those that didn’t know me or my then husband. I have cried because I didn’t know…