Category: marriage

  • Sorry, BUT…

    I recently read a really great article about apologies and how to properly apologize. I think talking about how to apologize, when to apologize, and what should follow the apology is going to be a great topic to write about and that will hit home with a lot of people. My biggest takeaway from the…

  • Year One: Done!

    I completely missed posting my “Marriage: A Year in Review” post. Just kidding. I never intended on writing one. I’m too busy and this year was a little too crazy for me to even think about making a full review post about it so I’ll have to summarize. Parts of it I 10/10 would NOT…

  • Do You *Really* Want It?

    There’s something said in my office pretty regularly that got my wheels turning: You can’t want something more than the other person wants it. I can sit here all day long and wish for change in someone, but unless they’ve got it in their head that they really, really want that change too – it’s…

  • Obligatory Valentine’s Day Post

    Valentine’s Day. Tomorrow is a day where half of the couples in the US spend their time showering each other with services, cards, gifts that cost as much as the mortgage, dinners that cost as much as a car payment … and the other half of the couples spend the day fighting because society and…

  • Divorce and Age

    You know what I hear a lot when talking about divorce with potential clients of my Firm? “What am I going to do with my life? I’m going to be single at X years old.” You’re single. You’re not dead. Most importantly: Don’t let your marital status define you. If you are worried about your…

  • Nightmare on Main Street

    It’s taken me ten months to take a deep breath and re-visit this story. Planning my dream wedding has never been a bucket list item for me. Those that know me, know that the last time I tied the knot I did it in Vegas and held back the urge to have a $300, sweaty,…

  • Thanking My Lucky Stars

    I started off 2023 with the theme “Celebrate Small Wins”. The past few years have been chaotic and a rollercoaster of goods, bads, and uglies so I wanted a theme that kept positivity flowing. I had goals of snail mailing cards for every occasion to be celebrated, buying tiny thoughtful trinkets to be given out…

  • 2022: The Birth of My New Title

    Wooooo weeee. No one ever told me how challenging being a stepmom would be. To make it even more challenging, I have no biological children and didn’t picture children of any type being in the cards for me. Ever.  I threw myself straight up into the deep end when I got married in April of…